A sad reality of human nature is that those who have the most tend to be ungrateful
and those who have the least tend to be the most
grateful.
I have met people with so much and still yearn for even
more.
On the streets of New Orleans, I met people who had lost
nearly everything, yet shared what little they had.
My mother once was a waitress and told me the wealthy gave few tips and then very little while those clearly pinching pennies were generous.
Perhaps they knew what it was like to have little and to work
hard for even that.
We live in a culture that is becoming devoid of
gratitude.
You will be hard-pressed to find it on social media.
Facebook has become a platform for sharing grievances and tirades.
It might be more accurately called "Spitebook".
Facebook has become a platform for sharing grievances and tirades.
It might be more accurately called "Spitebook".
We celebrate Thanksgiving by stuffing ourselves with
food in mouth-bulging amounts
rather than feeding people who don't have enough to eat.
rather than feeding people who don't have enough to eat.
We desperately need to recapture the lost art of gratitude.
How do we do that?
During the course of a day we could look at whatever is in
front of us and say,
"How easily and quickly could this be taken from me?"
"How easily and quickly could this be taken from me?"
Our job. Our eyesight. A child, a loved one.
A place to live
A pet. Our health. Our car. Our security, our nation at peace. Our marriage.
Now, try to imagine attempting to live with those losses.
Perhaps we would be more appreciative of those blessings in our lives.
Perhaps we would be more appreciative of those blessings in our lives.
And more compassionate with
those who do not have them.
those who do not have them.
“At times, our own light goes out
and is rekindled by a spark
from another person.
With that remembrance,
we should pass that spark
to another
who currently
resides in darkness."
- Albert Schweitzer
HAPPY THANKSGIVING,
EVERYONE!
Since the loss of my Bugsy, my own life has been devoid of joy. Gratitude is difficult, though I say the words and think the thoughts, my heart feels it not. I ache, I grieve instead. Thank you for highlighting why. I’ve been praying for gratitude. For the joy to return. And I believe that it will. Unfortunately, in the meantime, ask for. Thank you, roland. Happy Thanksgiving.
ReplyDeleteIt hurts I know from experience. But we had furry unconditional love for a time. Many do not have even that. You have friends who rallied around you in your grief ... and more who rallied around you and your new book.
DeleteLife and love will find their way back to you. No deep wound heals quickly, but it eventually does. May the upcoming New Year bring better things to you.
Umm that was supposed to say: in the meantime, I suffer. happy Thanksgiving!
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