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Monday, March 29, 2010

NEVER TELL ME THE ODDS!


The odds are against us. Worse. Look at the headlines of suicide bombers. We are against us.



There is no director to yell "Cut!" No stunt double to take our place. And no new movie to star in when death swallows our person.



We must be our own hero. Wear our own spandex. And, if Kate Beckinsale of UNDERWORLD is to be believed, spandex pinches. And so it should. Pinches remind us that pain befalls us all, to be kinder to someone whose pinched face shows us that the spandex of his/her life is less than comfortable.



The picture of this post comes from Cassandra. She is a hero, a woman who could have surrendered to bitterness and defeat. But instead she has chosen to choose life, healing others, and going forward. Though she would deny the heroism of her new life, I consider her a hero. Her trauma is hers to tell. I am just tipping my hat to her heroism.



And in a fashion, all we authors struggling to be published have to be our own heroes. The odds are against us in this harsh market. It seems that the motto of agents we approach is : "If I don't want your autograph, I don't want your manuscript."



But giving up can become an addiction, a way of life. Never surrender. Never yield to despair. Stumble, yes. Fall, of course. But gather your strength, your wits and get up. You can do it. Others have before you. Fling the blood and sweat from your eyes and smile wide. You can use those acid feelings searing your will and heart in your writing, becoming a deeper, more perceptive writer.



And more importantly : if you refuse to give in to bitter hopelessness, you will become a deeper, more compassionate human being. When you succeed, and you will succeed, you'll be able to thrust out a helping hand and word to someone, down and hurting, who needs a boost back onto the path. You'll be able to give them a pat on the back to lend strength to their steps. The pats lower leave to the agents and publishers.



And my favorite scene of all the STAR WARS films highlights my thinking {sorry about the foreign subtitles} :

1 comment:

  1. Thank you Roland for sharing your story with me... Your mother had very wise words and they made an impression on such a young six year old. I will feed the right dog. I have never heard this and it has made an impression on me.
    I am glad that you decided to comment.
    :)

    I liked your post!

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