“We are products of our past,
but we don't have
to be prisoners of it.”
―
―
Most people develop a
childhood habit of dodging
punishment for mistakes,
but it's a habit that must be broken.
Taking responsibility
when things go wrong
is crucially important
to building trust with others
and learning from your mistakes.
Dysfunctional parents
enforce rules arbitrarily
and consequences for mistakes
are inconsistent
and unpredictable.
In the face of irrational punishment
and anger that
they can’t reason with,
children learn that
the only solution
is to evade
reality.
As you make the transition from
childhood to adulthood,
it is a habit
you have to
learn to leave behind.
If you don’t,
you will continually
lose
trust with employers and friends,
And even more importantly,
you
will never learn from your mistakes.
HOW COMFORTABLE
ARE YOU IN
DEALING WITH YOUR
MISTAKES?
I own my mistakes, but there is always a moment of fear or terror as I step up. I don't always enjoy the consequences of my actions. :-)
ReplyDeleteAnna from elements of emaginette
The fear we feel when we step up is what courage is all about. Yes, the consequences are hard to live with sometimes, Anna. Good for you for stepping up. :-)
DeleteI try to own my mistakes. I have continually changed - there was a time when I was a teenager, I felt that whatever I am doing is the right thing - which was not always the case. But with maturity - I am aware of my deeds and try to be careful.
ReplyDeleteI think you like Calvin and Hobbes - it repeatedly comes in your post. Even I like it 😊
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Calvin makes me laugh, but I identify more with Hobbes!
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